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When a couple comes together, their lives change. They fall in love. They become part of each others’ lives. It’s only been the last 100 or so years that girls have broken up with guys. Before that, if a guy wanted a certain girl, and he was willing to commit to her, the two remained together until the guy either died or broke up with the woman.

Humans have evolved in such a way that females have no innate facility to determine whether or not any given condition justifies breaking up. What I mean is, whether the woman will be happier overall without a certain guy. But guys have been dumping girls since the beginning of time. So, breaking up is sort of a masculine thing, I guess.

One big determining factor in whether or not a guy will take a break-up hard is if the couple had intimate contact. From an evolutionary standpoint that implies to the male that he is responsible for the female. When the female leaves the male, she has some context—albeit false—in which to frame it. The guy has only bewilderment, because nature did not intend for such a thing to happen.

So, there’s a bond broken that was intended to be severed by the male only. If the female severs the bond, the guy usually just dies. It’s so predictable it can be assumed. But there are some guys who survive! How do they do it?

In heartbreak, central-nervous-system (CNS) dopamine levels drop, which is the direct biological cause of the sensation of heartbreak (grief). One sure way to combat grief is to place one’s self in mortal danger. This increases the level of dopamine, because that’s an integral component of the survival fight or flight syndrome.

Depressed subjects may require medical treatment, only because the individual is allowed to deteriorate to a life-threatening state. So, if a man’s life is threatened by the cataclysmic decline in available CNS dopamine, due to a break-up, he may gravitate to a risky lifestyle until he can find some other girl. It’s weird, but guys don’t really think about girls as individuals.

It’s more like beer. A guy can just grab another one. It’s not like there’s only one can of beer in the world! Girls think more about guys as people, like with feelings and stuff. But if a guy seemingly changes for the worse after a break-up, he’s trying to get dopamine to replace what is lost during heartbreak.

Until the guy is happy again, the girl cannot be happy or move on. Sometimes this prompts the girl to kill the guy. I know a guy who was disabled for life as direct result of civil divorce. But he didn’t die! He lives on as irrefutable evidence against the civil courts in this nation. Consequently, the medical, legal and dental industries have made 13 murder attempts on him.

He’s not a smart guy. He sounds like he has a stump in his mouth! He is no one who could escape from a well-laid plan by people with graduate degrees and years of professional experience. But God Loves this guy! The Heavenly Father has said,

I Behold I, Yes I, The Lord God Almighty speaks, ‘My Beloved Son, You see they have done you no harm, because they were unable. They see with blind eyes and hear with deaf ears, because they exalt human understanding, consequently making themselves laughing-stock for The Sons of God! But You see differently, not with Your eyes and ears, but by every Word that is uttered forth from the mind of Almighty God!

‘They have made clear their desire: they refuse to live on the same planet with You. Therefore, your undeserved enemies—enemies who mock everything legitimate and truthful—have been placed on notice that they have 48 hours to vacate the planet’s surface, permanently.

‘I’m not an unreasonable God. Perhaps they did not anticipate such difficulty slaying a poor, feeble, disabled old man whose trust was completely in the hands of his would-be murderers. Lo, to those who know not holy scripture! For it is written,

I AM The Lord God Almighty, through Whom all things came into being! This is the one I approve: the lowly, afflicted man whose heart trembles at My Word!”

‘My Beloved lives in testimony to My Love, Kindness and Power! All are welcome to turn toward Me and repent from sin. But I have hardened your hearts! If you create no further trouble, and you sincerely try to make amends for the egregious evil you have wrought, you may escape further notice.

‘You will be free to remain on the planet’s surface illegally. But you have been indicted on serious charges. You have been sentenced to death. It’s up to each individual whether or not the sentence shall be carried out sooner, or later.’”

That’s all God said.

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