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Does He or She Like Me? How Can I Tell? Guys’ Dating Dos and Don’ts, Girls’ Dating Dos and Don’ts, Guys’ Turn-Ons Turn-Offs, Girls’ Turn-Ons Turn-Offs, What Does it Mean if a Guy …?, What Does it Mean if a Girl …?

You see someone you like, and you like them. That means you’re attracted to that person. But how can you get something started? You don’t want to make a fool of yourself! What if the person is a weirdo? It just seems impossible to know everything!

The mysteries involved in physical attraction begin at the basis of existence. If you read and follow the principles in this post:

1. You will know if someone likes you.
2. You will know how to approach anyone to maybe start up a relationship.
3. You will be able to spot heartbreak before it happens, or how to recover afterward.
4. You will know how to attract and date anyone you want, regardless of your looks and/or wealth.
5. You will immediately spot and avoid zeroes, losers, players and users.
6. You will know the secrets of attraction and how to use them to find security, commitment and  happiness.

Why are males attracted to females and vice versa:

Visual physical attraction is a genetically programmed reproductive trait found in humans, the purpose of which is to bring together the male and female in a solitary pair, so the male may perform the marital act on the fertile female, after which the female conceives offspring.

The marital act is performed only by human males on fertile human females, for the purpose of procreation of biological lineage: Kingdom: Animalia; Phylum: Chordata; Class:Mammalia; Genus: Primate; Species: Homo Sapien. Don’t be afraid! That scientific stuff just means: Human Being!

Mammalian males of other species perform the mating act on a female of like species, only when the female is fertile, in a single instance after which the female conceives offspring. Mammals do not naturally mate unless conception occurs.  More on this later.

So, a guy is attracted to a girl, because he wants share with her his most precious and intimate gift: the seed of masculine love and forgiveness. What greater expression of a man’s love could there be than new life in the image of married lovers, and in the image of God!

A girl is attracted to a guy, because she wants security, commitment, marriage and children; but she needs a man’s name, and a man. Otherwise, her children shall not be holy.

Girl’s Dating Guide:

Don’t initiate contact. A girl is always prepared to meet a new guy, because of her hormones. She’s relationship oriented. Girls’ interests conform to beauty, courtship, marriage, family, and celebrity gossip. It’s human biology!  

At any given moment, a guy might be interested in you, or something besides you.  A girl never knows. So, she always allows the guy to approach her. If a guy won’t come up to you, don’t show your desperation! If a guy wants you, he will pursue you.

If a guy senses female desperation, a girl could lose her choicest bridal adornment!

Males go through a right of passage. When a son attains the age of independence, he is prepared to strike his own root. His father has certain expectations, that if met will bring his blessing upon his son.

A male must receive his father’s blessing before he is able to responsibly pursue, compete for, and win a desirable mate. Devoid of his father’s blessing, a son will mate prematurely, before he is prepared to sacrifice for those he loves.

Girls are prepared for marriage by age 16, because of their innocence. Guys don’t lose innocence, because they’re masculine. So they can act like pigs, and they experience no guilt. Girls must be diligent in their devotion to The Eternal Blessed Virgin Mother: Mary Most Holy.

Each morning, consecrate your heart to  your Holy Mother in Heaven. Even in times of temptation, you’ll avoid impurity, so you can eventually become a holy and chaste bride.

Females are a lot smarter than males, so they don’t need the last 2 years of high school. A girl can commit to a guy at a much younger age than a guy can commit to a girl.

Dating is not a recreational activity. On the guy’s part it is an implied promise to the girl, that the possibility of commitment and security through marriage and family does exist. If the guy is eliminated by some obvious impediment to marriage:

1. Insufficient income – it costs money to provide for a wife and children.
2. Emotional immaturity – marriage requires love. The measure of masculine love is willingness to sacrifice for another.
3. Blood relation to the prospective bride – this one is obvious.
4. Darwinism – the individual is clearly slated for elimination from the human gene pool.
5. Cowardice – will not initiate contact.
6. Selfishness – cares only for himself.
7. Insincerity – words are in conflict to actions.
8. Sloth – unwilling to invest time and effort
9. Not Baptized – Holy Matrimony, from which marriage is derived, is a Roman-Catholic sacrament. Heretical and schismatic offshoots of Catholicism also practice Christian marriage, and Mother Church validates such marriages as legitimate, holy and sacred. Government uses the word, marriage, in a sense utterly foreign to life, love, biology and to reason itself.     
10. Wanted – a wanted suspect cannot legitimately enter into marriage.

OR, he is incapable of rationally entering into a lifelong commitment, because of:

1. Addiction – chronic patterns of intentional sin endanger the immortal souls of a wife and children.
2. Mental illness – precludes rational and free choice
3. Psychopathy –  self-centered; mirror without a reflection     
4. Drunkenness – too obvious to elaborate
5. Pathological – compulsively lures the innocent into snares of catastrophic destruction

Loss is the sole cause of debilitating heartbreak (grief). Fornication—natural intimate contact outside the bonds of Sacramental Matrimony—is a serious sin, because the act imperils the heart. Girls were Created to have one living mate.

The marital act forms a soul tie between extending from the female to the male, but not vice-versa. Males were Created to marry one virgin, but there were once far more females than males, and up until World War II, unmarried females past the age of 16 were viewed as a social burden.

So, Mother Church declared that adultery works both ways! 1,400 years later it caught on. Now, people think it’s bad for a guy to get married and sometime later find some other girl. It is bad, but the badness isn’t found in the act, it’s in the concealment.

If a guy allows his wife to meet prospective mistresses, and become friends, the wife will not mind her husband with the other girl. Lying about it implies wrongness. Telling the truth and being up front removes the inevitable mistrust and despair.

We must understand why women fear their husbands being with other girls. To form her identity and to be fully human, the woman must place trust in the father of her children. This releases the hormone, oxytocin, which initiates a neuro-chemical cascade, with the end product of a sense of well-being and security!

If a guy is dishonest about anything, the woman loses oxytocin, and her sense of security. Conversely, if the guy is honest, even about things a wife might not understand, she doesn’t lose her security, because honesty implies commitment and the intention to remain so.

I found out guys are kinda weird this way: even if a young chaste virgin doesn’t speak the same language, and even is there’s a 20-year age difference, a guy really enjoys intimacy with the girl, and watching her nurse his baby on her large firm well-formed pointed-up breasts.

I guess talk is overrated! But the important thing is honesty. Every wife wants her husband to be happy!

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